Dads need moms to step back. Let the kids and dads play. I am blessed to have a husband who enjoys his children. He plays with them, reads to them, includes them, and disciplines them. When I am working he takes them to lessons I normally would.
If women want to do everything they have to be willing to give up a little control.
Maybe I would not have dressed him like that or let her eat that before lunch. But they are still alive, right?